Public speaking

Today everyone is teaching about public speaking and writing with complete clarity. We have done a study and have understood that both of these things actually are only from a motivation point of view. We have built a society where we like good orators or people who can present themselves very well. We think that we save lot of time and energy, when a person is able to speak properly or narrate properly in writing. The reality or the hard reality in which the world has lived over a long period of time - is that both of them are illusionary and actually do not help the culture. It makes people to become leaders and showcase dominance. This spoils the fabric of the society and we encourage people to become followers of leaders. This book/article/theme is going to change the way, we are habituated to see everything. It is not to say that public speaking or very good writing is bad. What should we actually promote is more important.

Some of the problems of building leaders and building dependency on few and why we are stating that public speaking and good narrative skills are not so essential for our growth.
 * 1) We have been habituated to always follow leaders from thousands of years. No leader  - no progress or rather we can say disputes or infighting has been a common trait of our mind. The leader should be able to influence people and inspire them to acheive the goal. It is good thing - however, we are just following the same principle over several thousands of years and we have not seen shift in human consciousness, which should have come. If a small person has got great thought - it is just ignored and if the same thought or idea is expressed by a leader in a very polished way - it is readily accepted. Leaders are good - however, if leaders are power hungry and want to earn money it is not a good sign. People should be able to take the best decision without any help of the leader - this should be the basics of education. In the digital age, a few percentages of people have started developing decision-making skill, and that too with a very high degree of wisdom. We need to promote that collective wisdom at lower levels, along with leaders.
 * 2) 90% of the population is not good at public speaking or good in narrative writing. However, they like listening and reading the books and articles of great people. Most of the population has developed a psychology that people who are able to speak or write in e very great way should be our leaders. However, most of the leaders which we have made are hidden selfish in nature. People who are good orators or writers have very huge sense of ego and they always look at controlling and dominating people. They think that they know most of the things and people should just follow them. The actual reality is that people who are very humble and have the real knowledge and the essence of life or our existence are least bothered about public speaking or writing. They just focus on the work - they are never interested in followers or people accepting them as their leaders. They do not look at people understanding their talks and they are very happy as they are. Most of such people who had more wisdom, lived and went away - without anyone knowing. Today also, there are lot of divine people, who do not even want to come in touch with social media or come in touch with public. However, they exert a lot of influence in a very automated way and they are the reasons for lot of changes which happen in the society. They are never interested to showcase or state anything to anyone. They do the job as their duty. 90% of the people who are not good in public speaking and who are not good writers have more wisdom and lesser ego. They are more humble and they do not even expect anyone to become their followers or obey their orders. They do not get disappointed - if someone says that you do not know the topic - they are open to learning, even when they know lot more than people who are good at public speaking.
 * 3) People who are good at public speaking or writers are good at managing emotions and are good politicians. They only know how to manage people and growing people is a very big element which is missing in them. Leaders do all the tasks from mind to acheive an objective. However, common man does it from their heart and they do not do it as a formality. They do it only when they like it. This is the reason, we have millions of good or very great speakers in the world  - however, the quality of thinking is falling every day and selfish attitude is increasing along with disparity of income. These are some of the indicators on the impact of public speaking. We are not stating that public speakers are bad, however, the environment in which public speaking happens is not good. Even with so much of social media and connected environment - we are not able to make people connected to each other and make them think alike.
 * 4) Public should speak and let it be broken language or which cannot be understood by anyone  - it has got more emotional meaning and it comes directly from heart. People who cannot write should be encouraged to express themselves and should be appreciated. When I started writing, lot of common people feared contributing as they thought that they are not good. This means that public speaking and writing is creating a sense of inferiority complex in people.
 * 5) Innocent people have better thoughts and ideas. If we start listening and promoting people who are not good at public speaking or writing - we will build a culture of accepting people as they are and understanding in their own way. This builds lot of patience and eliminates the ego from most of us. This also builds "Grass root level - collaborators and helpers" who can drive the culture of prosperity. We have presented a unique concept of "Dil ki baat" where common people start speaking, writing and collaborating with each other to solve their problems by themselves. This actually eliminates the need of leaders' time and effort. The leader becomes a sponsor and mentor to help people to move in the best direction and achieve their goals and not theirs.
 * 6) People will connect with each other and will get involved, when their near and dear ones are speaking or the people near them are sharing their success stories. We should not make people to get addicted to high degree of fluency and perfectness, always. Sometimes - a person who knows everything, cannot express anything. These are the people who are required to be engaged and inspired. The people at the ground are the most important and everyone should work to raise the bar from the bottom. Within few months, every person can be a master public speaker and writer -  this will solve the problem of educating and driving the right moral values. When people start speaking and following their words - we will build a great culture.
 * 7) The focus should be on our culture and enabling people to do what they thought, that they cannot do it. Leadership is not about giving speeches or having great followers or being a great influencer. A real leader should enable people to enable others - a great leader will look at doing simple things that can solve the problem quickly. However, if today leaders do it simply, they will not be known as leaders.
 * 8) Leadership today has become a psychological disorder and everyone wants to attain the top post. A person at the lower levels is not heard - we should give more importance to people who are at the bottom. Once, they are aware of their duties and responsibilities. They will start driving and will take all the necessary actions - they will feel all the joy and happiness in contributing to society.
 * 9) Universal energy responds to innocence and purity of heart - it does not care even if the most powerful person on earth is stating something unless; they are innocent or have got purity in their thoughts and actions. This is the sole reason - all the leaders of the world have failed to bring unity or improve the ecology. Every leader of the world has got their hidden vested self-interest - some state it and some do not. If all the leaders at various levels were really good - we should have not got so much of suffering and pollution everywhere. We need to accept our mistakes and look at working to accept/correct them. The most important thing is we should start working on dissolving our ego and think that we are only a minute part or we are not the doers - we should just act by thinking that it is our duty and responsibility.
 * 10) Today people appreciate a public speaker who proves that they are doing everything correct and when a leader is accepting their mistakes openly such people are heavily criticized and their job or career is lost. People should learn to listen to the mistakes of the people and help them improve. Everyone does a mistake and it can be bigger or smaller - we need to give space to people for improving with dignity and respect. Everyone wants to improve, but our society does not allow them to improve.

The audience brings fear
Most of the common people do not want to speak or write when huge number of people are going to witness - as the audience is always looking to compare. The person lose their confidence as they always think about the criticism of the audience. The audience creates fears and we have a society, which likes fully polished and perfect speeches. After listening to such perfect speeches, also there is no change in the audience. If motivational speakers were really effective - we could have seen that we are already living in a great world without any suffering of any kind. The truth, is we hear only from a physiological perspective and we forget 90% of the talk within 24 hours. Very few remember everything or a larger part of it for a longer period of time. How they remember and why they remember depends on the number of people listening or the popularity of the person along with our interest in the topic. If we look at all the factors and see how we learn - it is not a good methodology to learn only on motivation. People who like to be motivated or who are required to be inspired from outside at regular intervals are the people who require consistent fuel. From our perspective, a person who gets inspired from within and not from anyone is the best person and that person will achieve all the goals and do all his tasks without anyone reminding them. These people are not required to be managed or guided regularly. However, the culture in society is very poor and hence we have very few people - who work without any motivation. Even today CEO's of the biggest companies or the promoters of the biggest companies require motivation to understand their duties and responsibilities towards the society and nature. For everything only common people are responsible, as we like such people who motivate us and we do not want to even understand or put efforts to change our habits by ourselves.

Biggest crime is self improvement
We may be shocked to get this reality that self-improvement is the biggest crime and people make fun of the person who brings continuous changes. If the person is rich and wealthy, it is fine or else the person who even thinks of doing something better is often criticized or is not allowed to do anything. The majority of the people do not want to bring the change within themselves in an automated way, as they shy from society and they do not want to express themselves. People speak out only when the situation rises above a certain threshold limit or when anyone gets impacted severely. If people talk about certain proactive measures or want to take some good action when they see something wrong happening - that person loses their value. The reason of all this is people want to hear it from great leaders and big people and unless they set the direction - no one in the society can bring major change. We do not want to listen to common people around us or even from our family members. We will understand the same concept from a leader, but will not be willing to learn from a family member or a friend. Hence, it is important that people should start listening to people around and understand them. Even if people start listening to family members and think from their perspective. Everyone wants others to change, instead we should look at accepting them as they are. Some people are like robots and they cannot change till their death and hence we should never expect that someone will change. We can alone bring change withiin ourselves.

Instead of public speaking or writing - we should encourage family and friends listening and understanding. Some people develop a fear that common man does not know anything and everyone will start doing things differently. Common man has got all the common sense and they are able to think and take better decisions - we should enable the common man on the ground to take all the right decisions by themselves without any help from any leader or guidance. Even children are making better decisions today - there is a cultural collapse - but to build a great culture and heritage, it should come from within the common people, youngsters, and children. No one should help them - this is the best way and approach - they have to awaken themselves.

If we do not awaken or arise to the opportunities by ourselves - time will come when we will require motivation and inspiration to do toilet on time - today we are not doing toilets in the right place or keeping the toilets clean also. In order to just bring cleanliness - we are struggling from years. Everyone should understand that time should not come where volunteers take out a procession to get up on time and do the basics in the morning. We should actually now have the slogan "Jaggo Jaggo sabuh ho gayi" instead of watchmen's of earlier days shouting "jagte raho".

Today a common man is not ready to take any responsibility or understand their duties. This is because they have never been kept in the front - leaders always spring up to guide and get the complete attention of the society. Leaders, should enable the laziest person in society and make him speak about their achievements. Good leaders - should be only listeners and enablers. Thanks for responding - have a great day with your family and friends. This can be a miracle statement - when people around us really arise and awake. People will fear of wrong actions from the people within their family and friends. They will not require leaders or any motivational speaker or even law and order. This will happen with innovation and empowering the common people. Today children do not know, how their parents are earning and what kind of work they do and how they fulfill their desires. In KBC, a person preferred to ask the amount due to a person in phone o friend - you can understand the impact of public speaking and listening without any leader. They will mature more quickly and will be able to solve their own problems.

Public speaking should mean that the public only speaks and listens as well. Awakening the common man and empowering them is very essential.

Outcome based discussions
Instead of leader speaking - we should have debates and discussions to find solutions with logics, data, and facts. The people should not only discuss, but also work together as a team to deploy those solutions. This makes the leader a spectator and they should be able to guide the people and work with them to achieve their results. This brings outcomes, collaboration, and momentum to do a lot of work with little efforts. We believe that by discussing, things will not get solved - people should find solutions and work towards them, and hence, we have brought the overall concept of uolwe. The platform will aid in everything and will bring people from across the globe along with all the knowledge to solve a particular opportunity.